My Date with a Millionaire
I remember when I was in my early 20s, my friends and I often joked about landing a rich man so we’re sorted for the future. It was not so much about not having to work, but rather about the glitz and glamour that comes with the lifestyle. Seriously, we all grow up watching the same movies and TV shows – who doesn’t dream about having that Pretty Woman moment? Shopping at the most exclusive boutiques, traveling exciting places… For me it was clear that one day I would want to have my date with a millionaire, too. While most women only dream, I decided to take things in my own hands. My date with a millionaire wouldn’t happen just because I fantasised about it during our cocktail nights, so I decided to be proactive about it. Who says you can’t find the right candidate if you know what you want?
My date with a millionaire changed my life
Friends often ask me how I managed to find a super rich guy with such an extravagant, outrageous lifestyle. No, I didn’t participate in a poker tournament at a fancy casino. And no, I didn’t manage to get access to an exclusive members club, either. The truth is rather simple: I had my date with a millionaire through a dating app. We always assume that wealthy men only move in elite circles and are completely out of our league, but I found that a lot of them are actually pretty down to earth. Just because a man makes a lot of money does not mean that he necessarily thinks of himself as something special. And yes, just like most other men, even super successful guys use dating apps. They too want to have fun, date, find affairs, and eventually fall in love.
Once I understood that, I found it much easier to approach successful guys with confidence. Eventually I landed my date with a millionaire, and he has become not only my partner. He’s my best friend, too.
The right chemistry is essential even for the super rich
My date with a millionaire was intimidating at first. I can’t deny that I was maybe a little bit too impressed by his wealth. His demeanour in public and the self-confidence immediately made me feel that he was very much aware of his position. It can be easy to make yourself smaller than you actually are when you are with somebody like that. However, there really is no need to do so. As long as you are happy with your life and proud of what you are doing, you can consider yourself successful. And just like in any other relationship, it comes down to chemistry whether you make a good couple or not.
When we went out for the first time, we clicked immediately. While our lives felt like we live on different planets, we realised that we had so many interests and values in common. One thing lead to another, and what started as a casual affair eventually turned into a relationship. We got along so well that we just couldn’t stop seeing each other.
How I made my date with a millionaire a full success
Occasionally a friend asks me how I managed to make my date with a millionaire such a success story. Honestly, I don’t feel like I did anything in particular to keep him interested. Rather, I treated him like any other guy I met before. Most importantly, I didn’t make it all about the money and his flashy lifestyle. At the end of the day, we all want to be loved for who we are, not for what we have accomplished and for what we can afford. Therefore, my only advice would be to be yourself and to show interest in him as a person. Everything else will work out naturally.
